You should
have no surprises at your wedding ceremony, and you should know exactly
what is going to be said. I firmly believe that your ceremony should
not be about the minister, but should be about YOU! Since it is your
wedding, it should include all the aspects of ceremony and celebration
that are meaningful to you. It can be as traditional or as personal and
customized as you wish.
I will be
happy to perform your ceremony in the location of your choice! Many
people who contact me are interested in having their wedding ceremony
in a location other than a church. Country clubs, gardens, hotels, golf
courses, private homes, and beaches are popular choices for modern
wedding ceremonies.
I am available
for a rehearsal before the wedding. If the ceremony is relatively
simple with a small wedding party, the rehearsal can be just shortly
before the wedding. However, it is best to have a separate rehearsal if
there are a number of people involved.
I consult with
each couple in person ahead of time and go over a wedding ceremony
checklist. The couple chooses the order of the service and the various
personal aspects of the ceremony they want included. We cover all the
questions about who, what, where, when, and how. Bridesmaids,
Groomsmen, Flower Girl(s), Ring Bearer(s), ushers, parents, relatives,
honored guests, music (live, recorded, solos, etc.), flowers, rings,
candles, readings, sermon, vows, prayers, etc.
I have
compiled a vast array of materials that will aid you in designing your
wedding ceremony. If you do not wish to design your own ceremony, I
have created several standard ceremonies that you may choose from. At
least a week or two before the wedding I will send a copy of the exact
wording of the entire wedding ceremony to you by mail or email for your
review. This gives you a chance to make sure that the ceremony will
include all of the things that are important to you. If there are any
changes needed, we have plenty of time to make them. Thus, when the
time comes for the rehearsal (or if there is none, then the wedding),
everything should go smoothly. Sending you the exact text of the
ceremony ahead of time is intended to give you peace of mind. The
result is usually complete confidence that everything will go according
to plan during the ceremony. After all the time and money that you have
spent planning your wedding, I want to do everything I can to make it
organized to perfection!
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