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You should
have no surprises at your wedding ceremony, and you should know
exactly what is going to be said. I firmly believe that your ceremony
should not be about the minister, but should be about YOU! Since
it is your wedding, it should include all the aspects of ceremony
and celebration that are meaningful to you. It can be as traditional
or as personal and customized as you wish.
I will be happy
to perform your ceremony in the location of your choice! Many people
who contact me are interested in having their wedding ceremony in
a location other than a church. Country clubs, gardens, hotels,
golf courses, private homes, and beaches are popular choices for
modern wedding ceremonies.
I am available
for a rehearsal before the wedding. If the ceremony is relatively
simple with a small wedding party, the rehearsal can be just shortly
before the wedding. However, it is best to have a separate rehearsal
if there are a number of people involved.
I consult with
each couple in person ahead of time and go over a wedding ceremony
checklist. The couple chooses the order of the service and the various
personal aspects of the ceremony they want included. We cover all
the questions about who, what, where, when, and how. Bridesmaids,
Groomsmen, Flower Girl(s), Ring Bearer(s), ushers, parents, relatives,
honored guests, music (live, recorded, solos, etc.), flowers, rings,
candles, readings, sermon, vows, prayers, etc.
I have compiled
a vast array of materials that will aid you in designing your wedding
ceremony. If you do not wish to design your own ceremony, I have
created several standard ceremonies that you may choose from. At
least a week or two before the wedding I will send a copy of the
exact wording of the entire wedding ceremony to you by mail or email
for your review. This gives you a chance to make sure that the ceremony
will include all of the things that are important to you. If there
are any changes needed, we have plenty of time to make them. Thus,
when the time comes for the rehearsal (or if there is none, then
the wedding), everything should go smoothly. Sending you the exact
text of the ceremony ahead of time is intended to give you peace
of mind. The result is usually complete confidence that everything
will go according to plan during the ceremony. After all the time
and money that you have spent planning your wedding, I want to do
everything I can to make it organized to perfection!
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